Thursday, July 24, 2008

Our Cruise Awaits

Our anniversary cake provided by our travel
agent Mary.

War Memorial

Royal Hawaiian Garden
Alan and Karen enjoying breakfast ont4he beach at theRoyal Hawaiian
with Diamond Head in the background.

Surfers at Dawn


Day Two: Honolulu/Waikiki-Partly cloudy, 81’
After a wonderful night’s sleep we got up at 2:30 wide awake. After all it was already 7:30am in Baltimore. We got dressed and decided to go for a walk along the beach. On the way we explored the hotel some more and discovered some peaceful areas where one could sit and read a book. The ladies restroom was so elegant with a glistening chandelier in the entryway. There were large paintings on the walls throughout the hotel depicting ancient Hawaiian Royalty. It was a exquisite morning and so peaceful. We walked through the Royal Hawaiian Buffet area where we were greeted by one of the waiters preparing for the morning buffet that wouldn’t start for another 4 hours. He offered us both a nice fresh cup of Kona coffee. We thanked him and headed outside. We passed through the ‘surf room’ where pictures of famous surfers hung on the wall along with movie star photos. This is where the photo of Shirley Temple hung. She looked as to be around 6 years old. We sat at one of the tables by the pool enjoying the warm ocean breeze while drinking our first cup of Hawaiian Coffee. Afterwards, we walked on to the sandy beach and touched our toes in the cool water. We frolicked in the ocean with the waves splashing our legs for several minutes. A man riding a tractor was plowing the sand making sure it was perfect for the visitors that would be basking in the sun later that day. The Royal Hawaiian has their own section of beach reserved for their patrons. There are lounges with large pink towels draped over them positioned underneath huge pink and white beach umbrellas.

After our playful ocean visit we walked through the hotel grounds and enjoyed the serenity of the Royal Hawaiian Garden. I imagined Princess Kawananakoa or Queen Lili’uokalani strolling amongst the tall palm trees and lush foliage, listening to the songs of the birds as the ocean greeted them during their morning walks. I even took my sandals off while walking on the grass so I could feel the lushness of the dew-moistened ground beneath my feet. Yes, this was the life! After our walk-about as the Australians would say, we went back to our room and got ready for breakfast. We decided to go to the Royal Hawaiian Buffet. What a spread they lay out! It was the best buffet we’d ever seen! I had fresh, ripe mango, cantaloupe, a small waffle with coconut syrup, grilled potatoes, and some scrambled eggs with bacon. The waiter served us fresh mango-pineapple juice and hot Kona coffee with real cream. We sat outside enjoying the fresh ocean air and listening to the sound of the waves. We laughed at the sight of some pigeons as they got reprimanded for landing on a table close by, upsetting some dishes causing some to fall and break. Poor things, all they wanted was their breakfast too. There were signs on the tables stating NOT to feed the birds and one could see why. They were trained quite well to wait until patrons vacated the tables before swooping down to eat whatever they could find. The little birds could flit in and out without any mishaps unlike the big, fat pigeons. We leisurely ate breakfast taking in the scenery with Diamond Head in the background. Our waiter asked if he could take our pictures when he saw what a nice camera I had. He was a bit of a camera buff so we took the opportunity to have pictures of us taken together. It’s hard for us to get pictures of the two of us together whenever were on vacation. He took three shots including one of us with the pink & white Royal Hawaiian awning and one with Diamond Head in the background even.

After breakfast we walked over to the International Market to see what kinds of goodies they had. I found a fabulous Hawaiian-print skirt and some flower combs to wear in my hair along with a pair of bright orange/red gourds used in hula. I had wanted a pair the last time we were in Hawaii but never bought them. I also found a Happy-Face Hawaiian sticker and placed it on the front of my scooter. We finished with our purchases and went on down the block to Starbucks for our frappacinos. I asked if they had any Hawaiian gift cards but they were all out. Marie, who works at the Starbucks in Baltimore, had asked me to look for one for her as she thought they were pretty. She had seen one of her customers with one so when she heard we were going to Hawaii she saw her chance of getting one. We saw a pretty black and white Collie tied to a tree outside Starbucks and he seemed quite happy lying on the cool grass. Even the dogs in Hawaii were happy and stress-free. We crossed the street to feed the fish at the seawall where we’d seen them on our previous trip. Since I hadn’t saved anything from breakfast to feed them I had Alan buy a biscotti at Starbucks. The fish thought that was quite a treat! Afterwards, we walked back to the hotel room to pack and drive to the port to check our luggage on the ship, then we could spend the rest of the day enjoying Waikiki. We found the port easily and it wasn’t long before a porter came to help us with our bags…especially since Alan knew the secret…waving money in the air.

Our first stop would be at Hilo Hattie’s. As we entered the store we were greeted with shell leis and a refreshing cup punch. Hilo Hattie’s is known for their unique prints and fun shops throughout the Hawaiian Islands. They even have a shop in Huntington Beach, California now. I took advantage of some terrific bargains on some designer dresses. I bought one of their dresses 15 years ago and am still wearing it. Unfortunately, they discontinued that particular print but I found another one that was pretty close to it. Alan told me to go ahead and buy several dresses. Who was I to argue? I love them and they’re so cool and comfortable to wear at work. Alan and I even found a print that came in dresses as well as shirts. He bought a matching shirt to one of my dresses. The shirt he bought was a ladies’ shirt (it didn’t have a canoe on the tag signifying men) and we didn’t notice until we had gotten back to the ship. It ended up okay, as we were able to exchange it later when we returned to Honolulu from our cruise. I also found some dashboard hula dolls; one would go to a young man (Ben) who works at the Starbucks we go to in Baltimore. I found a matching man-woman hula set that held ukuleles to put in our truck. I also picked up a pretty calendar for my mom that I thought she’d enjoy, I could write down important dates on it for her. We took advantage of the coupons I’d found earlier and got some lovely free coffee mugs with pretty four different Hawaiian flowers painted on them. Inside Hilo Hattie’s was a stand where pearls from oyster shells were being sold. The salesman was so funny and the shell I chose, with his help had a beautiful black pearl inside. The salesman tried ever so hard to get me to buy an expensive setting for it but I declined. He wasn’t happy at all. I bought the pearl for $9 and thought I could have it put in the setting I already have that has a pearl in it. When I got home I put it somewhere and for the life of me can’t remember where I put it. I know when it was in my purse I put it in the zippered area but remember taking it out and thought I’d put it in my jewelry box but apparently I didn’t. I hope I can find it. Also missing are all the pennies I got for Diana at the International Market and I do remember putting them all in an envelope marked Pennies from HA. I sure hope I can find the pearl and pennies.

After visiting Hilo Hattie’s we drove on to Waikiki find local hamburger joint called Bigger Burgers at Teddy’s. The coupon map showed it being somewhere close to the zoo but for the life of us we kept going round and round. I was really starting to get hungry and told Alan just to find any old place, other than Jack-in-the-Box. We found a place that looked like it would fit the bill and the prices were really good but all the tables were filled up so we hopped back in the car and proceeded to look for Teddy’s. We were on a quest. We finally found where it should be; the next challenge would be to find a parking spot. We entered the parking lot for the Zoo and Park but they were full by then so we drove over by the beach area. God was with us as we found the perfect parking spot. Since I had my scooter with me the walk wouldn’t be a problem. There was some kind of festival going on at the park in front of the zoo so we decided to check it out since the signs said lots of food. I went four wheelin with my scooter through the grass, going over large banyan tree roots that stuck up from the ground. I was having a blast seeing what my scooter was capable of doing. If we couldn’t find Teddy’s maybe we could be able to find something there. But to our disappointment the food selection wasn’t anything we wanted so we left. We headed across the street and decided to start asking people if they knew where Teddy’s was and sure enough it was right there, just past Starbucks and kind of hidden. It was a cute little hamburger joint and we both ordered teriyaki burgers and fries along with a nice large drink. The place was decorated kind of like a 50’s place with music to match. The burgers were worth the search, I’m glad we waited.

Afterwards, we headed to the park area on the beach. On the way was an adorable American Eskie and I just had to stop and talk to the Eskie’s human friend. He told us his Eskie was a female and how expensive pedigreed dogs went for on the islands…$3500 and up. He said in China they go for as much as $8000! I was finding all kinds of neat statues to photograph including the famous surfer ‘Duke’. Alan enjoyed kicking back while my scooter and I went exploring. He was getting plum tuckered out trying to keep up with me; after all he did need to take it easy so. I told him to find a nice, shady spot to relax while I headed to the end of the beach towards Diamond Head. We had seen some kind of big building towards Diamond Head and wondered what it could be so away I zoomed, my Red Chariot and me. It was a gorgeous day and riding around on my scooter was great. Along the way I took some snapshots of surfers. I also discovered a hut selling food and cold drinks. I would definitely remember this place. I made it almost all the way down to the end when I came across a dead end with soft gravel. I thought I could get through the couple of feet of thick gravel…but I was wrong. I got stuck. I had to get off and pull the scooter to the sidewalk. At first I thought I had done my chariot in but luckily, it still worked. I made a mental note to myself, “Do not go on gravel”! The large building we had seen was some kind of hotel/condo and right next to it was the War Memorial Arch. Since I had my camera I took pictures of it to show to Alan. I could see people at the top of Diamond Head so I used my zoom lens and captured the adventurous visitors who had climbed to the top. The last time we were in Hawaii we took on the challenge and believe me, it is a challenge. I’d been gone about an hour so I headed back where I had left. Alan and told him all about my escapades. He told me he was wondering what had happened to me. It was quite warm so we headed to the little Snack Hut to get some cool drinks.

We got up and decided it was time to head back to return the car and hop on board the ship. It was nice arriving in Hawaii a day early and having 2 whole days on Oahu before embarking since the ship didn’t leave port until 8pm! When we returned the car we were given a ride to the ship in their shuttle bus. We embarked the ship around 6pm and went straight to our cabin (No.9040). What a surprise when we arrived. Sitting on the desk was a beautiful cake saying ‘Happy Anniversary’. Next to the cake was a note with the message from our travel agent, Mary. What a thoughtful gesture, too bad we hadn’t checked in earlier as it was an ice-cream cake and had started going to mush. There were huge strawberries on top of the cake weighing it down but we managed to scoop some of the tasty treat and enjoyed it before it melted entirely. I tried scooping the melted ice cream cake into glasses to save for later, however storing it in the refrigerator proved to be a bad idea. We figured the kitchen waiter probably thought we had boarded the ship when we dropped off the luggage around noon. Oh well, like the saying goes, “it’s the thought that counts”, right?

After eating our cake we went down to the main dining room for a nice meal. Since it was ‘Freestyle Cruising’ we weren’t assigned any particular time or table. We did end up sitting with other guests during our evening meals at the main dining room even though they were never the same people. The food at the main dining room wasn’t anything special so I usually ordered the Wahoo fish with Caesar salad. Chilled soup was served only once during the entire cruise, which I always looked forward to. Since I didn’t keep extensive notes on this trip I don’t recall what I ate on each of the nights at sea. We chose not to eat at the specialty restaurants, as their menus didn’t warrant the extra per person charge. The three specialty restaurants were: the Pacific Heights serving Mandarin & modern Japanese cuisine, the Royal Palm Bistro offering classic French bistro fare and the Kahili serving a combination of Italian dishes both classical and modern. Their menus never changed throughout the week as in most ships in their fleet. The menu in the specialty restaurants use to be offered in the main dining rooms so there was never an extra charge. The cruise line is making changes to try to off set their rising costs. I can understand this but seasoned cruisers won’t return when service goes down. Gratuities are automatically charged to guests’ onboard accounts, which does away to giving cabin stewards and restaurant staff what you think want to. The staff splits all the gratuities amongst them thus if someone is lazy they get as much as someone who works hard. We’ve seen service go way down since NCL this. Guess the cruise line expect business from first-time cruisers or people whose expectations aren’t high. With Freestyle Cruising one can get away with wearing about anything they decide to wear and never have to dress up. That’s okay if you like that kind of casualness but when taking a cruise Alan and I have always enjoyed dressing up, at least during evening meals. The formal nights were always fun too. We like to dress casual but that should be saved for daytime and when off the ship, not in the main dining rooms. NCL’s philosophy is ‘resort casual and they say guests find there are places for their style all over their ships, day and night. Daytime is basically fine since they know guests probably head for the pool or out for a fun shore excursion. Casual shorts, jean, tops and sundresses are welcome everywhere, including the main dining rooms. This was a bit much. Swimsuits can even be worn to the poolside grill or the buffet. NCL says resort casual dress can be worn in all the lounges. They say it’s the guests’ vacation and that guests can dress anyway they choose to. What ever happened to dressing up, at least for meals? It looks like NCL is taking the elegance out of cruising and making it a free-for-all. Sure it’s nice being able to dress casual but what is casual for one person can be risqué to others, lines need to be drawn. Since Alan and I disagree with NCL’s viewpoint on this we have chosen to sail with other cruise lines that do enforce a more conservative dress code. NCL is geared towards a whole different type of vacationer now, which is okay for some, just not us.

I was a bit disappointed that we didn’t receive leis when we boarded the ship like our agent said we would, guess she didn’t know we wouldn’t. Here we pictured someone greeting us with beautiful leis and saying Aloha as we boarded the ship and then sailing off to the tune of ‘Aloha Oie’. Guess that only happens in the movies. Actually there are ships that do that, just not any of NCL’s. After dinner we went back to our cabin and unpacked. One look around the cabin and we knew the room would need to be rearranged. Alan proceeded to move the twin beds, loveseat, table and chairs around the room to give us more room for the scooter. It was hilarious. Alan wondered what our cabin steward, Kathy, would think but she told us we weren’t the first guests that had ever done that. It was hard work; first Alan put the couch on top of the beds and moved the beds not only over but also around, facing towards the door going out to the hallway. He finally did it. The closet space was small but I managed to arrange all our clothes. The bathroom didn’t have much room to put things; there was a lot of wasted space. It wasn’t very large but it wasn’t the smallest one we’d ever had either. It was kind of funny as thought there wasn’t a hair dryer in our cabin. The last day when I was checking all the cubbies and drawers in the cabin I found it inside one of the drawers, stuck way in back. This was the first cruise where we didn’t dress up in formal attire. Alan brought along a lot of nice Hawaiian shirts and slacks to wear in the evening.

After unpacking it was about time for the nightly production at the Stardust Theater called ‘The Welcome Aboard Show’. It gave everyone a taste of some of the entertainment that would be going on throughout the cruise such; one of the entertainers was comedian, Bill Hildebrandt. I admit he did make me laugh. The musicians and dancers gave a little taste of what to expect but Alan and I agreed their performances were below par from what NCL use to have. The singers seemed to be off-key and the dancing wasn’t anything special. Maybe this was a new production crew I thought until I recognized one of the dancers from a cruise we’d taken a year ago on another NCL ship out of NY City. Guess, we’re use to the Dancing with the Stars dancers and critics. The Hawaiian Ambassador for this cruise did some relaxed hula dancing to one of the singers who sang during the show. She was very good and a truly sweet person. Her name was Iune u’imau mahealani June Teruya. Now that’s a mouthful isn’t it? She said we could call her June. She was also in charge of the lei-making and hula classes. We went to most of the shows and enjoyed the entertainment most of the time. We missed out on the Hawaiian Cultural Show at the pool since we were having dinner. It was a Ho’okipa Aloha Show that combined hula and music and included interesting Hawaiian culture through the Ho’okipa Aloha, which translates to ‘Gift of Aloha’. It sounds like something we would’ve enjoyed had we known about it. That was something that happened a lot throughout this cruise, not getting the correct information to enjoy an activity that was going on.

When the evening show at the Stardust Theater was over we visited one of the lounges and ordered a drink for each of us. The bartender didn’t want to make any ‘noisy’ drinks (needing to be blended in a blender), as it would interrupt the singer even though the singer was background music. I think the main reason it upset Alan so much was that he was going through withdrawals from not smoking. Needless to say, we never visited that lounge for the duration of the cruise. We headed back to our cabin. Alan learned that getting upset like he did could have serious consequences. He ended up having to take a Nitro. It worked quickly and soon we were off to Dreamland.

Monday, July 14, 2008

Our Hawaiian Vacation


A Shirley Temple Cocktail from the Royal Hawaiian. They created this drink for none other than Shirley Temple herself

Alan and Karen standing by the statue of the famous surfer 'Duke' on Waikiki Beach.


The Surfer Room inside the Royal Hawaiian Palace in Waikiki. If you look closely you'll see a photo of Shirley Temple as a child.

A display of dresses actually worn during the opening night of the Royal Hawaiian Hotel.



The Royal Hawaiian Hotel. This is the garden area and our room was directy above the Royal Hawaiian Sign on the hotel.



The lei given to Karen as greeted at the Royal Hawaiian Hotel.

HAWAIIAN VACATION
May 3rd, 2008

This year Alan and I celebrated our 25th anniversary by going to Hawaii and taking a
7-day cruise around the islands of Oahu, Maui, Kauai and the Big Island of Hawaii. We left Baltimore in the wee hours of the morning on May 3rd and arrived around 30 minutes past noon (Hawaiian Time). There’s a five-hour difference so it was actually around 5:30pm and our bodies were feeling it somewhat. I had planned on sleeping a bit on the plane but only napped once I think. The seats we had on the planes were terrific! On the first leg of the trip we sat right behind first class so we had plenty of legroom. On the second plane we sat right behind the restrooms and once again had plenty of space to stretch out, plus being by the bathrooms was an added bonus! When we had arrived at BWI and checked in the lady switched our seats for us allowing for that extra comfort. The airport was very accommodating with my electric scooter too and I was able to ride it right up to the plane and they checked it and had it ready for me in Houston so I could use to get to the next gate. It sure made it a lot easier for me to get around. I definitely got my money’s worth from my scooter on this trip. We should’ve purchased one ages ago. While on the plane, Continental served us Chex with Honey cereal, milk, and very green bananas. I didn’t eat any of it as I didn’t want anything sweet that early in the day and the bananas were so green you couldn’t even peel them. I imagine they were probably ripe enough for the afternoon passenger though.

When we arrived in Houston I noticed the strangest looking cloud formations ever. Even the flight attendants commented how they’d never seen anything like it either. The clouds were dark and looked as though they were rotating and I thought how it might be the beginning of a tornado since there were storms we had been flying around that morning. I wish I could’ve gotten a picture of it but the window that we were looking through was in the area of the aisle that passengers walked to and from the plane and the flight attendants had to get the plane we’d just disembarked ready for the next flight. I never did find out what that cloud formation was but it was huge and eerie looking. On the way to our gate we passed a Starbucks and enjoyed our java drinks. I had my usual ‘frothy latte’ and Alan had his peppermint-mocha frappacino. We also got bananas to eat.

During the second flight we were served steak n cheese pizza (which was actually very good), peanuts, Cape Cod potato chips, and brownies. Several hours later we were served ham and cheese cold sandwiches but I chose not to eat them. I did eat some of the carrots but of course Alan couldn’t. We had brought along some tuna lunch meals that we snacked on just prior to them serving the sandwiches. The lemon pepper tuna was the best on crackers. I’m glad we were able to find these the night before our trip. We were told that there wouldn’t be any meals served on the plane so we had packed something to eat. Continental treats their customers well. Movies were shown during the long 11-½ hour trip. We watched one called ‘Final Season’ with Sean Aston in it. He played a high school assistant baseball coach that took the team to championships. It is a true story about a small country town and the school district deciding to close the school and transfer kids to larger schools. I’ll have to see if I can find this movie at Blockbuster

When we left Baltimore it was dark and chilly and when we arrived in Honolulu it was sunny and warm. At least we dressed accordingly so we didn’t have to swelter as soon as getting off the plane. My scooter was ready at the airport and we found our way to baggage pretty easy. After collecting our luggage Alan caught a shuttle to Thrifty Car Rental to pick up the car I’d reserved for us. It wasn’t too long before he arrived. While he was gone I checked out some of the local brochures to see what kind of deals were offered on meals/tours and found some coupons for Hilo Hattie’s. Alan was given a PT cruiser and wasn’t too happy about getting it since I’d ordered a mid-size car. He changed his mind though when he saw that it was able to accommodate all our luggage and the scooter easily. I found a map in one of the brochures I’d been browsing through while waiting for Alan to get back with the car, which helped Alan with directions from the airport to the Royal Hawaiian Hotel in Waikiki. So far, so good we thought until we got closer to our hotel. Then the traffic slowed way down to a crawl and taking a wrong turn proved to delay us another half hour. We finally found it and drove up to the front of it. A young gentleman took our keys and unloaded all our luggage and the scooter before parking the car. We were able to use the ramp that lead to a secret hall and onto the hotel lobby. We checked in and went up to our room. It was huge and so elegant. In just a few minutes our luggage arrived. We checked the room out and the view was spectacular overlooking the garden. The ceilings must have been at least 18 feet high. Everything was done in a pink-coral. We browsed around the hotel and then went to the beach bar where we ordered the Pu-Pu platter and drinks while listening to music. Alan had a Mai Tai and I had a Pink Hawaiian and then tried a Lava Drink. That would hold us till dinner. There was a wedding about to take place soon right on the beachfront. The area was roped off and white chairs were set up. There was a pretty white flowered arbor where the couple would stand. A buffet was set up next to the white trimmed tables. How romantic to get married at the Royal Hawaiian overlooking the ocean!


We were in Hawaii and on vacation! The Aloha Spirit had ascended upon us. We took a walk around the hotel and took in all the historic photographs on the walls. There was a window display showing a photograph of Opening Day and even had a couple of the dresses worn on display. What a gala event that must have been! The entire hotel was so elegant. I found myself daydreaming what it must have been like back in those days. Shirley Temple had visited as a child and it was here that the drink was created and named after her. Of course I did order one of these drinks and it was truly the best Shirley Temple cocktail I had ever been served! Alan and I decided to eat dinner at Dukes, which was next door. As we walked out to the street we soon discovered why there was so much traffic earlier…the Spam Fest! Who would’ve guessed? There was even a Spam mascot. There were some adorable young girls dressed in hula outfits that were lined up to go on stage to perform. We didn’t stick around to watch as it looked as if it might start raining, which wouldn’t have been good for my scooter. We headed up towards Dukes. The trail leading there took us by some local shops where I found the most adorable Hawaiian dolls. I thought how nice they would be for Emily’s collection. Alan said we could look at them after we returned from our cruise a week later. After all, I might find them a bit less expensive. At Dukes we were seated where we could look out over the beach. It was an open-air restaurant and the ambiance was upbeat. There were all kinds of pictures of the Duke with other surfers and stars like John Wayne. Duke was not only a champion surfer but a swimmer as well and went to the Olympics for the U.S. He was loved by all. I ordered moonfish with garlic mashed potatoes and the salad bar. There were even purple sweet rolls, which are made from the taro root. We were so full from dinner that we couldn’t eat any of their famous Hula Pie. This consists of macadamia nut ice cream piled high on a chocolate cookie crust and topped with chocolate fudge, whipped cream, and more macadamia nuts. It’s sized for sharing, but rarely goes unfinished! Even though Kimo’s originally created this it’s now a favorite at most of Duke’s restaurants. After such a satisfying dinner we were both ready for bed and it was only 7:30. We crawled into bed and were sound asleep almost as soon as our heads hit the pillow

Friday, May 2, 2008

25 Adventurous Years!

Wednesday, April 30th was our Silver Anniversary. Being the creative person that I am I decided to make Alan's card and put special words from my heart. He really enjoyed the card and said it was better than any I could have bought. For our anniversary we exchanged some gifts and went out to a fabulous Chinese Restaurant in Annapolis. We went all out and ordered so much that it almost didn't fit on the table. I discovered a wonderful fish dish they called the Hawaiian Fish Plate and it was mouth watering, Alan said I'd made a perfect choice. It had pinapple and veggies in it. Alan gave me a beautiful engraved silver heart locket, an exquisite music jewelry box from the Anastasia collection engraved and a pretty silver butterfly barret for my hair. He also gave me a silver snowglobe with two silver angels inside. The song that it played was called Romance. I gave Alan 2 silver lighters engraved. Now that he's quit smoking he won't use it as much but I'll make sure we have lots of candlight dinners so he can. I also gave him a silver engraved flask to keep water or his favorite drink with him when we're on excursions during vacation. The flask has a special compartment that would usually hold cigerettes but I transformed it into a photo compartment and put a silver engraved money clip inside. I really got creative after he had his heart attack. After he had his heart attack I went shopping for something better as I didn't think my gifts would be that great (this was before I transformed them) and found the perfect gift at Hallmark. It's a 'manly' picture frame that looks like an antique book and I placed some of our wedding photos in it. The top of the frame says 'Our 25th Anniversary'. Alan thought it would look nice in our travel trailer that we're still planning on getting next year to move back to the west coast. I had written Alan a special poem for our anniversary also. Here it is:
Happy 25th Anniversary

Our lives have taken many paths, some rough and some nice

And the gift of our true love did come with a price

With each laugh, each tear, each kiss, or harsh word

Our love was molded to perfection and forgiveness was learned

We are survivors in an age when love seems to die

Giving up wasn’t an option, or our vows would’ve been lies

I thank you for continuing to be the man that you were created to be

But most of all I thank you for the love you shared with me

You’ve been my Knight in Shining Armor as well as my Big Chief

You’ve been my friend and my lover, endearing and sweet

We’ve shared a lifetime of memories, none of them dull

Living life to the fullest, a life most colorful

Our love has blossomed over these twenty-five years

And you have become to me, even more dear.

Thank you for 25 adventurous years!

Writen by Karen Reardon
April 2008

I also wrote this:

I Remember when…

…we first met, and how you became my knight in shining armor.

…James walked in on us asking, “Are you going to be my new daddy?”

…you sat me on the couch to tell me something very important. I thought it was going to be that you were married with a bunch of kids. It turned out to be that you weren’t 21 yet and lived with your parents.

…I first cut your beautiful, long hair as you were going on a job interview. I think that’s when I won your mom over.

…you taught me to play pool and wasn’t easy on me? I learned to be good enough that I was your partner at tournaments and we’d win lots of meat!

…I won your love with my homemade chicken and dumplings. I still couldn’t compete with your mom’s steak dinners though.

…I rode on the back of your motorcycle holding my nose as we hurried past stinky Everett. One time we slept under the Deception Pass Bridge after eating several boxes of McDonald’s chicken nuggets?

…we took the ferry to Woodby Island wearing my long white skirt that you liked; you said I looked like a little Dutch girl?

…we spent a July weekend with your family and slept in a squeaky bed? In the morning we tried to sneak out in your Grandpa’s boat with a 6-pack. That afternoon the funniest golf game ever took place with your mother and Grandma Pansy. Most of my golf balls ended up in the lake but it was fun.

…we danced and thinking, “boy you’re tall and I’m short!”

…we decided to move into a house in Mountlake Terrace with the kids and we would play Miss Pac-Man in bed? I decided one morning that I wasn’t going to make you breakfast until I could get through the first screen.

…we would go bowling at my work tournament and on weekends watching you and Grandpa Bill challenge each other in several games of bowling.

…we fished at Echo Lake on cold weekend mornings with the kids and you teaching me the secret of catching fish with marshmallows.

…you would take James fishing before he went to school and the day he caught his first fish.

…we took trips to Fort Casey with the kids and how they loved it.

…we went to the beach on Woodby Island and you gathering enough wood to make us a big bon-fire, I would call you my Big Chief and we would make S’mores.

…we ate cherries from the tree in your parents’ yard and how I politely spit all the seeds in my hand…and trying to look ‘normal’

…I made us with fresh Lingcod that you had caught…mmm, good.

…the day I came home from work and went to the pool where you gave me a kiss and then took it upon yourself to push me in the pool with my dress, hose, and heels on? The expressions on people’s faces were priceless. I couldn’t believe you actually did that!

…I would get lost coming home from the corner store.

…I had trouble parking my Pinto and would high-center it.

…you taught me to play cribbage and then playing with your dad by his rules?

…I crocheted a sweater for you and you insisting it being done by Thanksgiving Day so you could show it off to your relatives at the cabin on Woodby Island.

…you followed your own instinct and won a $500 Scratch-Off after I told you that you should’ve just taken the $2 you’d won from the previous Scratch-Off. Good thing you didn’t listen to me that time.

…I got a job at the place your mother worked after being up all night. I should’ve gotten an Oscar for that Award Winning Performance!

…we went to the place your sister worked in Seattle and everyone bought us shots of rum for our Blue Hawaiian drinks.

…staying up all night playing cards with Myrna, Jim, and Tim.

…you bought me a ring for Valentine’s Day; it had a small heart on it. Do you know that I still have that ring?

…you first got your motorcycle and took the kids and me to Edmonds Beach, one at a time.

…we took a vacation to the Oregon Coast with the kids and visited Mt. St. Helens
…and most of all, I remember the night you asked me to spend the rest of my life with you as your wife and I said “yes” (after asking Diana and James how they would feel about it of course), and how we missed the final episode of M.A.S.H.. We celebrated with champagne and announced our engagement to the whole world…at least everyone at The Village Inn. Thank you for 25 adventurous years!

Yes, we're romantics but isn't that what Love's all About?


Friday, April 18, 2008

God is Good...all the time!


This is my husband Alan and I love him dearly. Sunday was a day both of us will never forget. Alan had gotten up and gone to work around 3am and was finished delivering his loads in time to drive me to church at 9:00. Right before pulling into the church driveway he noticed pain between his shoulder blades in his back so when he dropped me off he got out of the pickup to stretch. That's when he noticed pain in both his arms and slight pressure in his chest. He jokingly said, "I hope I'm not having a heart attack." I told him he should go to Patient First and get checked out but said it was nothing and that hot tubbing at Bally's would remove any kinks in his back. I felt there might be more to it so asked Diane and Les in my Sunday School class to start praying. We did and Diane suggested we go to Bally's and make sure he was all right. She had her blood pressure kit with her so she could at least take his blood pressure. On the way out from church Diane kept telling everyone we passed, "pray for Alan...health". When we got to Bally's we searched the parking lot for the pickup but it was nowhere in sight so I called Alan on his cell phone asking where he was and he said on his way to Patient First. We were only a couple of minutes behind him so we went there and by the time we got there the ambulance had been called and Alan was hooked up to all kinds of equipment. Diane drove the pickup and me to the hospital. She asked me how to move the seat forward and I didn't know how except for the passenger seat so she sat on the edge of the seat and we prayed we'd get to the hospital safe. When we arrived we went to the Emergency Room and what I saw I wasn't prepared for. Alan was in so much pain and kept trying to sit up to relieve it...the doctor asked us to wait in the waiting room so they could do what needed to be done. We waited and waited for what seemed like an eternity. I was so glad that Diane was with me! I was a mess. We prayed and she called her husband Les telling him she had parked their car at Patient First and to come to the hospital after Sunday School class and to tell the church that Alan was having a heart attack. The church prayed. Soon the cardiologist came out and told me Alan had had a heart attack and they were going to put a stent in. We followed Alan to the waiting area and soon Les was there. I called Alan's mom to let her know what was happening. I couldn't even talk so Diane did the talking to her and got her cell phone number for me. Les, Diane and I waited and in 30 minutes the surgeon came out saying everything went smooth and he only had one blocked artery and was able to put the stent in. We all praised the Lord! We went up to ICU where Alan was and were able to see him. He said how much better he felt already. I was so thankful for Les and Diane. Les has had stents, heart attacks, and even open heart surgery so he talked to Alan for a bit and I know they'll talk more.

Diane and Les left as they had plans to drive to Pennsylvania for a birthday party for Diane, a week early since that was when it was convenient for everyone. They said they'd come back that night and give me a ride home and drive the pickup home. I was so glad that everything turned out the way it did. Alan had prayers going up for him from the west coast to the east coast. I called his mother, Sheryl to let her know all went well. My friend Margie came by later in the afternoon and we spent some time in the cafeteria drinking tea. It was good to see her and catch up since we hadn't seen each other since her cruise in February.

That evening I was so relieved that God had kept Alan safe. So many things could've happened as Alan had pulled over the side of the road as he was nausea and when he got out of the pickup he laid on the ground. It's so good he was able to drive himself safely to Patient First and that everyone there did everything efficiently to get Alan taken care of and transported to the hospital in record time. God knew what was happening and made sure that everyone that would be needed was in their proper place at the proper time. Alan stayed in ICU until late Monday night and then was moved to a regular room. He was anxious to get out of the hospital. He was released from the hospital on Wednesday but won't be released to go back to work for 4 weeks. He is doing really good but since he had a heart attack the cardiologist wants to make sure everyting is okay. We go on vacation in 2 weeks so it will be nice to relax on our cruise...and be just what the doctor ordered so to speak.

God truly is good...all the time! Thank you Lord for watching over Alan!

Friday, April 11, 2008

Romance is in the Air

With our 25th anniversary only 19 days away I've been thinking about the day we got married, April 30th, 1983. I found our audio cassette from our wedding and was trying to figure out if there was a way I could have it converted to a CD since it's hard to find any cassette players anymore. I tried talking to Ritz Camera and Radio Shack with no good solutions and then thought to go online and see if I could find something...and I did! I read the website thoroghly and then called them today during my lunch. They assured me there would be plenty of time for them to do it and mail it back to me. I placed my order online and will mail it out tomorrow from the post office the quickest way there is...Fed-ex. I'm so thrilled as my mother-in-law sang two songs for our wedding and I wrote a song and sang it for our wedding. Over the past month I found the words to the wedding song I wrote along with the song I wrote for our first and tenth anniversaries. And of course I wrote a special poem for our 25th anniversary, which I'm putting in the card that I made especially for Alan. Yes, I'm a romanticist...and so is he. I'll share with you the words to all the songs.

Our Wedding Song

Now we walk along hand in hand
Along the seashore, in the sand.
The rustling waters echo our love
And the angels sing from above.

As we look into each other’s eyes
Our vows are said and now no one can deny
That our love is and forever will be
True and lasting for eternity

Now we’ve been joined together publicly
Even though we’ve said our vows alone faithfully
The brooks are rustling by us so quietly
As night falls upon us so peacefully

Our love is and forever will be, true and lasting for eternity.



Yours For Eternity
(First Anniversary Song)

I am yours for eternity to walk proud by your side
We’ve a love so very special; love like ours will never die
We’ve had to be apart for too long a time
Yet I knew in my heart that you were mine
Take my hand and hold me tight
Let’s remember this special night.

I am yours for eternity through both the good times and the bad
We’ve a love so very special, even though riches we have not had
You’re my knight in shining armor
Who’s always known when to rescue me
I’m your maiden so true and loyal
Well sail along the crystal sea.

I am yours for eternity to walk proud by your side
We’ve a love so very special; love like ours will never die.



One Love Shared By Two
(Tenth Anniversary Song)


One love that is shared by two will be
Everlasting when that love’s real
One love that is shared by two will be
Everlasting when it’s true love.

Like a flower that blooms
After winter is gone
So our love has grown all through the years.

One love that is shared by two will be
Everlasting when that love’s real
Everlasting when it’s true love

*(Note: the words to this song were inspired by the words on our wedding announcements that read, One Love, Shared by Two)

I'll share the words that I wrote for our 25th anniversary on April 30th so be looking for it!

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

A Visit From a Dear Friend

An ornate little jewlery box and lots of beads! Thanks Marie!
Yesterday, Alan and I got to visit with Marie and her husband Jon who just returned from China. They had been there teaching English and had lots of interesting stories to share. Marie and I had kept in touch while they were in China and I was so thrilled to hear that she was back. She gave me this beautiful jewelry box and all these wonderful beads. She's been making jewelry for years and before she left for China I bought several of her gorgeous pieces. When she found out that I had started making jewelry she told me that she had lots of beads for me. I had so much fun going through all the beads, she even gave me some silver butterfly ones that will make nice earrings. In the jewelry box you can see some very 'special beads'. Jon introduced himself but I knew who he was from reading their blog. He's a very nice young man and has done quite a bit of traveling. They plan on returning to China now that they know what to expect. It was quite the adventure for them. Alan and I look forward to hearing more interesting stories from both of them. You can visit their blog and read all about their life in China and see the pictures http://jonandmariehelman.blogspot.com/ I met Marie at Starbucks last year and we became friends, she's so sweet and Jon is an interesting person to talk with as well. I feel blessed in knowing people like Jon and Marie.

Cherry Blossoms in Washington DC

It was a beautiful day we chose to go see the cherry blossoms in Washington.



This depicts the feeding lines popular during the Great Depression at the FDR Memorial.


These columns had engravings so the seeing-impaired could enjoy the memorial as well.





Statue of Eleanor Roosevelt


Statue of Franklin D. Roosevelt and his dog in one of the outside rooms of the monument.



One of the fountains at the Franklin D. Roosevelt Monument.



Mr. and Mrs. Mallard enjoyed people watching.



I love my little scooter! I was able to go all around the Tidal Basin and see things I had never been able to see before. My scooter has a basket so I can carry things in it, like my purse, but Alan forgot to bring it. This was taken in front of one of many waterfalls found in the FDR memorial. Alan enjoyed seeing me buzz all about having so much fun!



The tree that Alan is standing by has huge tulip-like blooms.



Jefferson Memorial is in the background.


If you ever get a chance to go to Washington, DC you might want to go in the Spring and enjoy the Cherry Blossom Festival. You can go to their website to for all kinds of information including the dates when the blossoms are at their peak! We've made it an annual tradition but this was our favorite visit!
http://www.nationalcherryblossomfestival.org/cms/index.php?id=390 Check it out sometime. There are lots of activities and so much to do and a lot of it is free! Be sure to take your camera!